Chay Chay Diaries

❤So here we are 2019 and I made alllllll these resolutions last year that left my head the week after I made them. I told myself last year I would be consistent and here I am another year still daydreaming. Now I know I’m not the only one that planned millions of trips last year in my head or told myself I would do this and that and just stayed home and watched love hip hop or stayed lurking on IG watching someone else glow up or what celebrity just got in a new relationship ❤Sounds relatable right? ❤Right that’s you reading this and it’s me writing this. We all get complacent sometimes in our comfort zones because it’s comfort. It’s what keeps us safe and in a great space because we are familiar and when you are familiar it brings what? comfort! See we are there this morning, we are vibing and in the right space so now you can be receptive to what I’m saying and I can hold my ass yes I went there with myself so now I am forced to hold my ASSSS accountable for what I know is my...

Lets keep it real we are now living in a day & age where it seems to praised even glorified to be "the side piece" No one seems to want the commitment of being "the main" The side piece epidemic yes i am calling this an epidemic lol is spreading like wild fire its more present in the music we listen to, in the shows we watch and even in our everyday interaction when we sipping tea (not the real herbal tea but that juicy gossip that we have in our group messages and just basic interaction with our closest people) "It's less work and more fun" being the side piece or is it? Is being a side piece where its at or are relationships still being valued, well today we gone sip some of that side piece or nah tea and who better to start with then myself.. so yall ready? HERE.....WE...GOO...... (mommy if you reading this i love you girl lol) ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ❤ So for me i hav...

❤ In today's society it seems as if fashion is everything. I know I'm constantly checking instagram to see what celebrity has the cutest outfit and how i can go to Charlotte Russe or even Fashion Nova to find something similar for half the cost, cause lord knows I don't have them coins yet hunny lol. Even with fashion constantly changing and evolving i happen to know a couple of fashion killas that manage to make their budget stretch or spend that extra coin to look fly. ❤ I want to introduce our first post to the "Fashion Friday" someone who i happen to know VERY well my lit ol bestie Instagram: @j_loyal ❤ One thing I've always admired about my bestie is he always has that I DON'T CARE attitude when it comes to fashion, he takes risk that some of us even myself would shy away from. I know ya'll have them moments when your shopping in and you see that cute top but you feel like everyone wont like it yeah admit it, it truly be like that somet...

(i do not own the rights to this photo) When it comes to my blog i want you all to experience consistency as well as wonderful topics and content. I plan on posting daily and each day will consist of different themes and topics. ❥On Mondays i will be posting foods:) and who doesn't love to eat, i seriously think this is why I'm Miss Thickness now lol but yes all about foods, good drinks, good meal prep tips and also my journey into eating healthy. It can be a struggle but on Mondays that is our day to let out the cravings good and bad. ❥In addition we will have some amazing people in my life share their tips as well as great food places here in Houston and around the world ❥I want you all to be involved so feel free submit your foody photos as well as tips and little meals you love. ❥On Tuesdays we will be getting in our feelings, giving advice and really just handling life. How many times have you felt alone and thought you were the only one going through an is...

Show me your resume (I do not own the rights to this photo) So lately I’ve been picking the wrong people to talk to like at the time they just seem so perfect. Y'all know the oh what’s your favorite color OMG green mine too kind of perfect. It’s like at the beginning everything is amazing. It just seems like God truly sent you “this time” like the last 2 was wrong lol but this one I’m sure of. Then weeks and even months later they start to show they true colors and here I am back at square one getting in tune with myself, finding me and not worried about someone. Until the wrong one comes again and I’m back in a pattern in a cycle, I know I’m not the only one that feels like this I just know there’s one person reading this like mannnnnnn this is so me. Well guess what I’ve came up with a new approach that I’m sure some “relationship guru” has already said but imma say it from a point of a view where you don’t need the thesaurus to figure out what the meaning of a word...