Chay Chay Diaries

(i do not own the rights to this photo) When it comes to my blog i want you all to experience consistency as well as wonderful topics and content. I plan on posting daily and each day will consist of different themes and topics. ❥On Mondays i will be posting foods:) and who doesn't love to eat, i seriously think this is why I'm Miss Thickness now lol but yes all about foods, good drinks, good meal prep tips and also my journey into eating healthy. It can be a struggle but on Mondays that is our day to let out the cravings good and bad. ❥In addition we will have some amazing people in my life share their tips as well as great food places here in Houston and around the world ❥I want you all to be involved so feel free submit your foody photos as well as tips and little meals you love. ❥On Tuesdays we will be getting in our feelings, giving advice and really just handling life. How many times have you felt alone and thought you were the only one going through an is...

Show me your resume (I do not own the rights to this photo) So lately I’ve been picking the wrong people to talk to like at the time they just seem so perfect. Y'all know the oh what’s your favorite color OMG green mine too kind of perfect. It’s like at the beginning everything is amazing. It just seems like God truly sent you “this time” like the last 2 was wrong lol but this one I’m sure of. Then weeks and even months later they start to show they true colors and here I am back at square one getting in tune with myself, finding me and not worried about someone. Until the wrong one comes again and I’m back in a pattern in a cycle, I know I’m not the only one that feels like this I just know there’s one person reading this like mannnnnnn this is so me. Well guess what I’ve came up with a new approach that I’m sure some “relationship guru” has already said but imma say it from a point of a view where you don’t need the thesaurus to figure out what the meaning of a word...

(I do not own the rights to this photo) There are people in your life that would never truthfully do anything for you. They don’t love you or care about you they just love the benefits you bring. They manage to stay connected to you so they do the bare minimal possible. They send a little text here and a little car there just so they can stay connected to you, so when they need you they know you will always be there. People like this are always hard to spot simply because they may be the closest to you. They are the ones that are always “busy” and do so much but manage to stay connected to every social media outlet. They are the ones that are never there for the struggle but always present for the come up. They always have their hand out on the receiving end but never on the giving end. These are the people we define as fraudulent people(definition coming soon). When people like this enter our life what do we do? How do we respond? Do we cut off? or Do we keep quite? 

(I do not own the rights to this photo) In our generation the relationship values have completely gone down the drain and I can say I’m definitely a victim of what I’m going to discuss. Okay so peep this at the beginning when your talking to someone its cute right? It’s that fresh like/lust so basically anything that, that person does or says your gonna act like you coo with it or you agree but if you disagree your not gonna make it seem like you don’t fully disagree cause it’s like who wants to seem like their stuck up or a lame out the gate lol NO ONE. So we compromise for example if you don’t like a dude or girl who smokes weed and they smoking around you and they go “hey do you mind if I smoke” in most cases we gone be like “ooh it’s coo” knowing we don’t think it is, it’s like we wanna gain them brownie points not realizing that once we get serious it’s gonna come back to haunt us. So as the talking phase starts once again everything is coo you get them good morning boo te...

(I do not known the rights to this photo) Okay yall lets get real. With my blog i want to be completely honest and real with you all and in return hopefully you all will be real with me. Now see i grew up in the church. It was something that my family was really big on.As a little girl i would go to church every Sunday, bible study every Wednesday, choir practice every other Saturday, i attended all vacation bible schools in the summer it was just natural to me. As a young one you learn about who God is and different characters in the bible such as Moses and David and Goliath and i loved it. Not to mention being in the children’s church getting snacks and occasional naps here and there, if you ask me it wasn’t that bad. Once you grow and the you surpass the children’s church you begin to go into the big church where the Pastor preaches various sermons. When i was in middle school i understood what the pastor was saying and i believed in God but some things i didn’t think reall...